we had a new vet. at the meeting today was in the marines, he really opened up, seen a lot now he is suffering from bladder cancer. he acted like the rest of us after talking about it was a ton of bricks taken off your shoulders. he didn't know these meetings were even being held. I have posted about this meeting before, being on this site lets me vent. I don't remember where I seen this (REAL HEROE'S don't wear capes, they wear dogtags) it just has stuck with me.