The way I was raised was with a good combination of both care and discipline (punishment) applied PROMPTLY as needed, none of this "wait till I git you home" or counting 1-2-3 then, 1-2-3, then1-2-3, etc. all that shows is you can't count past 3 . Anyway, there I go on the soapbox myself....Pretty darned uplifting! Too bad everyone can't live their lives like that, we'd have many fewer problems. Seems like the way school is taught these days is with an eye toward punishment if the student gets out of line, maybe a reversal and a concerted effort toward reward for doing good and a realization that children are individuals that need special attention....wait, I've gone off the deep end here, that movie must've made me mushy and unrealistic -- of course kids need to be punished, whew, that was close!