Pops, I just realized that your diagram in post #6 is indeed for a Ford solenoid. My apologies for any confusion I caused saying it wasn't. On the other hand, the R and S terminals are not labeled so that diagram by itself does not answer the original question. And your comment in post #9 now makes sense.
So, back to the beginning, you need a jumper between the big terminal on the Chevy starter solenoid between the big terminal and the S terminal. The purple wire in the harness goes to the Ford solenoid S terminal. If there's a ballast resistor it can either go on the I terminal of the Ford solenoid or on the R terminal of the Chevy solenoid.
With this scheme, the Ford solenoid can be mounted anywhere between the battery and the starter.
1971BB427, the "heat soak" advantage of the Ford solenoid is that the S terminal gets the same voltage as the starter power, instead of having potential voltage drop through a bunch of connections (starter to ignition switch to neutral safety switch if used and back to starter). The other thing with the Ford solenoid is that the starter has no hot connections except while cranking.