The simple truth is that GM 10/12 bolts will run you just as much as a stronger Ford unit. Period. And, that Ford unit will have better support for disc brakes, especially in the case of a 9". If they were so bad, they wouldn't be the choice of hotrodders that have Chrysler and GM cars, as well as FomoCo builds. If you can find a good 8.5" 10 bolt, that's a decent option, but in most cases it'll need a complete rebuild, it'll be an open diff, and it'll have a bad gear ratio (like a 2.56 or 2.73). You'll put a lot of money into rebuilding one unless you can find a good donor and even then, it may need to be narrowed. Forget about a 12 bolt...they cost a fortune.
As far as the Olds/Pontiac rearends go...good luck finding one. And if/when you do, because they're so rare, you'll spend some serious coin on a rebuild, a decent set of gears, maybe axles, posi, and disc brakes will be spendy too...probably well over $3K. That's just to get it to the point that a stock Ford 8.8 out of an Explorer is already at (can be had for about $300 with 31 spline axles, limited slip, disc brakes, and a good gear ratio for a hotrod like 3.55's, 3.73's, or 4.10's). I have an 8.8 behind a 600HP 420ci SBC. It'll be fine behind a 400HP motor.
A Ford 9", bolt-in, can be had for about $2K from Quickperformance.com. Pull the old one out, drop the new one in. Sometimes, convenience is worth money too.
Honestly, if you have an auto, a posi in a stock rearend might be ok too as long as you're not running drag slicks and racing it at the track all the time.